Friday, August 22, 2014

तुमको "सहज" और खुद को "अकेला" कर लिया..

एक तुम ही तो थे,
जिसके साथ सच को कह-कह कर लड़ती थी..
तुमसे मिले सारे अधिकारों का बेधड़क इस्तेमाल करती थी..
तुम असहज होने लगे थे,
मुझसे सहमकर दूर होने लगे थे ..
इन झगड़ों में छुपे प्यार, अपनापन और अधिकार को, 
समझ नहीं सके तुम ..
अब मैंने तुमसे भी दोस्ती कर ली है.
तुमको "सहज" और खुद को "अकेला" कर लिया है,
फिर से..

Monday, August 18, 2014

आज मेरे परम प्रिय मित्र का जन्मदिन है

आज मेरे आदर्श और परम प्रिय मित्र का जन्मदिन है , जिसने मुझे निरंतर संघर्ष करते रहना सिखाया है! उसका नाम है 'श्रीकृष्ण' ! मुझसे जुड़े सभी मित्रों को कृष्ण-जन्माष्टमी की हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं !



Saturday, August 2, 2014

क्या सोनिया अपनी कलम से कांग्रेस के पतन का इतिहास लिख सकेंगीं ?

करारी हार के बाद, निराश होकर आपस में फूट पड़ना स्वाभाविक है ! लेकिन इतना आकुल-व्याकुल होने की आवश्यकता नहीं है ! मौकापरस्त विश्वासघातिये तो हर सदी , हर युग और हर पार्टी हैं रहे हैं ! चुनाव के बाद केजरीवाल की कोर-टीम में कितना दोषारोपण और हंगामा हो चुका है ! नया क्या है ! सोनिया गांधी ने यदि आपकी जान की रक्षा के लिए प्रधानमन्त्री पद ठुकराया या राहुल ने माँ को खो देने के डर से उन्हें प्रधानमन्त्री बनने से रोका तो इसमें बुराई क्या है ? बहुत ही स्वाभाविक है ! और सोनिया का निर्णय उचित ही था, अन्यथा हो सकता है उन्हें सहानुभूति की लहर मिलने के बजाये , भारी विरोध को सहना पड़ता ! अब इन आरोपों के खंडन मात्र के लिए व्यर्थ में किताब लिखने की बात कहना बचकानी लगती है! चमक दमक की सत्ता के बीच रहा व्यक्ति अपनी किताब में तथ्यों को तोड़-मरोड़ कर अपने ही हित में लिखेगा जो सत्य पर पर्दा ही डालेगा ! ऐसी अनावश्यक किताबों से समाज का कोई भला नहीं होने वाला ! और कालांतर में ऐसी पुस्तकें आने वाली पीढ़ियों को दिग्भ्रमित करती हैं ! ऐसी किताबों के लिखे जाने पर भी सख्ती से क़ानून बनना चाहिए ! 

किताबें लिखने का हक़ सिर्फ उसे है जो निष्पक्ष हो ! निष्कलंक हो!

Zeal

20 Generalizations Indian Girls Are Fed Up With

1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she’s of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint, might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little.
2. Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD after Masters does not mean she doesn’t want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke. There will come a point when she would happily devote herself to her family, and balance it out with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, won’t make any difference.  Let her study while she wants to, okay?
3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean she’s been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.
4. Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless.
5. Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesn’t mean she is vulnerable and available.
6. Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is “having a good time” with all of them.
7. Just because she has a drink in her hand does not mean she is an alcoholic.
8. Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day.
9. Just because she is ambitious doesn’t mean she isn’t a family person.
10. Just because she doesn’t discuss her plans doesn’t mean she’s clueless about life. Give her a chance, alright?
11. Just because she is outspoken doesn’t mean she is a rebel.
12. Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues.
13. After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Don’t make that one weekend party make her look like a she’s a frivolous party-girl without a job.
14. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It’s how she relaxes, respect that.
15. Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesn’t have company.  Maybe it’s a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe that’s how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice, okay?
16. Just because she is a woman doesn’t mean she can’t kick ass in military school.
17. Just because she has a tattoo doesn’t mean she is attention seeking. Maybe that’s her way of expression.
18. Just because she doesn’t know how to cook doesn’t mean she won’t make a good wife. Remember when you were just married and cooked chicken curry which was um, a disaster?
19. Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesn’t mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better  than her male counterparts.
20. Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you.